I Got That A Lot

"Blood is thicker than water"

My mum always keep repeating this phrase. She also always said that "if I have gone later, whatever happens, never broke up your relationship with your siblings . Stay unite together as a family because family are everything." My sisters will look to each other then they will start to cry. For me, if I was there, I will go to the toilet to calm myself. So no one can see me whether I was crying or not. Hahahahaaa.. One day, my mum said that phrase again. I don't realize that my eyes were welling with tears. Then, its began to flow through my cheek. 

One of my sisters spotted something and she shouted "Naim is crying !!" and they started to laugh at me. Starting from that day, my sisters always tease me. I will never win when I have fighting talk with them. How come I could win?? Its 6 versus 1 guys. At the end, I was the one who will take the loser trophy all alone. I always got this a lot of times when I was a little kid. When I was in primary and secondary school, they created up a new slander to make me shy and blush. I don't know how they could come up with this story. They told my mum that I was in love with my neighbour, who same old as me. I used to call her Along instead of her name. Another disaster came. They also told Along's parents the same thing during Hari Raya Celebration when we visited their house. I was so speechless at that time ! My face started to turn red.

Then, her parents joined up and saying that they agree to match us up. My mother and sisters laughed seeing me in anxious. From that day. I became awkward when met Along. When my sisters saw us talking to each other in front of our house, they will made a mice sound and called up my mum and told that we were dating !  

But now I started to miss this kind of  things where we laughed happily, teasing each other, spent time together and many more. Now, everyone busy with work and have their own responsibilities and commitments. I wish that I could turn back time, enjoyed that moment and got "that" a lot again.

Making Judgement

Hello !! Here I want to share about making judgement. I am sure that all of us always undergo this kind of situation in our daily life especially in judging people and of course you have an experience in misjudging people. Am I right ?? I was also not spared from doing this.

So what does the judgement means ??

Judgement is the ability to judge make a decision or form an opinion objectively, authoritatively, and wisely especially in matters affecting action, good sense and discretion.

Judging someone is like the worst thing you could do for yourself. People are not what they look like. We judge everyone around all the time, by their walk, talk, what other people say about them and so on.

In 2013, I went to selection of football players to represent my school. Through the selection session, my eyes kept focused on this player. His name was Zulhimi but people used to called him Zack. He was one year older than me and one of the skillful football player in the school. He just got transfered to this school. But I don't know why my mind kept saying that he was arrogant based on his facial expression and the way he played. After the selection session, the coach had selected 18 players. Alhamdulillah, I also chosen to be in that team. We continued our training everyday and I still can't get along with Zack.

One day, my coach took us to Sekayu Waterfall to have some relaxation because the tournament was just around the corner. From this short vacation, I could spend time with my teammates to strengthen our bond in team. From here, I realize that my notation about Zack was absolutely wrong. Actually he was a friendly and easy to get along person. We have some chatlines and having fun together by splashing water to each other. Zack said that his friends from his old school also do the same thing, telling that he was an arrogant person when they met him for the first time. I asked for apologize for misjudging him. Then we became a good friend until now.

Other than that, it had been many times when the person I thought I can never be friends with became one my good friends and made me believe how wrong was I! Once you have do it,you just may lose out in getting to know a great person. So my advice for you !! PLEASE, do not quickly judge people without knowing them better.  

Here another story about making wrong judgement 

A few years ago, a 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…
“Dad, look the trees are going behind us!”
As his Dad smiled,  a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behaviour with pity, when suddenly he again exclaimed…
“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”
The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…
“Why don’t you take your son to see a good doctor?”
The old man smiled and said…

“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth and he just got his eyes today.

Every person in the world has their own individual story. Many times this story of the life may turn out being something that we never knew anything about. Sometimes, we don’t REALLY know what makes a person “tick” because of something that they may have experienced at some point of their life.
Why do I say this? Because sometimes we judge and create opinions about someone without even knowing them. We really should make it a goal each day not to judge people before we truly know them.
The truth might surprise you.